Actress, mother, wife, reality star; Tori Spelling is only 41-years-old, but she’s done a little of everything over the course of her career. The daughter of the late Aaron Spelling has had one of the most tumultuous stories in all of Hollywood, but you’d never know it looking at her Twitter page. Tori Spelling takes to Twitter to discuss everything from her marriage to her kids to her latest reality show, and she seems as happy as can be despite the fact that her life has been a series of ups and downs.

Despite being born to one of the most famous film and television producers in the world, Spelling has not had a career that’s overwhelmingly amazing. She got her big (biggest) break playing the role of Donna Martin on the hit series Beverly Hills, 90210 back in 1990 and she followed that with many made-for-television movies. She met and married her first husband in 2004, separated a year later and then married her current husband, Dean McDermott after the two engaged in an affair that ended both their marriages. The couple went on to have four children, a few reality shows and some serious financial difficulties. Over the course of the past year, Spelling’s life has been turned upside down with the revelation that her husband engaged in an affair while out of town.

Spelling has written several books, and she’s candidly honest in each of those – as well as her reality shows. She’s opened up and admitted she’s got financial troubles thanks to her obsession with real estate and some bad investments, the fact that she did not inherit the $10 million she thought she’d get upon the death of her father and the cancellation of several of her shows. With her marriage on the rocks, her financial situation looking worse than ever and four kids to raise, Spelling is dealing with a lot of difficulty in her life. However, you’d never know it looking at the reality star’s Twitter account.

LOVE our holiday card! This year I used – Super cute designs + very affordable!

— Tori Spelling (@Tori_Spelling) November 19, 2014

#datenight #janesaddiction Haven’t done a concert date nite w/hubby since BK= #beforekids…

— Tori Spelling (@Tori_Spelling) November 23, 2014

Amazing Thanksgiving w/the family N Vegas! &, after we put kids2bed last nite…Dean& I went & got something Cray Cray done as a couple! 😉

— Tori Spelling (@Tori_Spelling) November 28, 2014

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